You got a single text. “Come to my office.” A gulp. While they’re at work? You think. Your body tingles slightly. There’s a willing twinge below. It’s raining outside, but you don’t care. You pop on a waterproof, stick an umbrella up and make the trip across town. By the time you get to their […]

Have you ever had days where you’re just really tired? I have. One of them was yesterday. I had just got back the day beforehand from a 57 mile weekend of running. Excercise has been proven to help your sex life but sometimes you have just done waaaay too much! My sleep had been dreadful, […]

The other day I met someone who was completely befuddled by strapons. They didn’t get strapons for queer individuals, they certainly didn’t get it for straight couples, and the idea of strapon singles pornography or poly strapon sex would have probably blown their mind. Their deep bemusement didn’t come from a place of hate, judgement, […]

What is it that we like about watching pornography? Why does a candid shot of a lurid scene taken on a Polaroid make some of us weak at the knees? Why do we dim the lights, get ourselves primed, and happily settle in with a Sex Cam feed? These actions are all natural. If done […]

I get a little thoughtful about history sometimes.  No surprise, I guess – I’m an Art Historian – but, still, when my mind starts to wander in to times long passed my researcher’s spirit can’t help but follow it in to a world of discovery. And, the other day, it wandered on to the topic […]

The other day I was at a mental health support group with some mates and one of my friends mentioned the traditional (and agonizing) tradition of foot binding. If you don’t know, foot binding was a 10th century Chinese custom which involved binding a woman’s feet in such a way that would cause long term […]

Sex is a wonderful thing. You know I think so because I write a sex blog, but I’m not the only one. Sex has many noticeable benefits. It… Boosts your immune system. Lowers your blood pressure. Lessens pain. Can decrease prostate cancer risks. Improves bladder control. Is a natural mood booster. Can improve sleep. And […]

Listen, fellas – when it comes to buying your better half sexy underwear, please, don’t just go for something fishnet, red and with as much cut out of it as possible. That’s not how it goes – and your lady won’t thank you for buying something that neither suits nor fits them; if you get […]

Women wear them every single day, with each individual choosing a pair of knickers or panties that suit what their body type is, and how comfortable they want to feel.  But how much attention do ladies actually pay to their briefs, and are they going for a shape that doesn’t suit them as well as […]

The perfect way to take underwear from hot to smoking, stockings and suspenders are the ultimate in sexy attire for the bedroom. Whether you like the all sheer look, a bit of fishnet or some black lace, there is something to suit your tastes, and get your partners heartbeat racing! However, when it comes to […]