People sometimes don’t ‘get’ fantasies, especially fantasies that involve power plays, infidelity, or certain age changes (or discrepancies). But it’s important to remember that fantasies, and the enjoyment of them, are purely fabrications. Loads of people, for example, enjoyed the newest Mad Max or John Wick (pick a movie) but very few of us are […]

I have a confession to make: I don’t really watch ~adult entertainment~. I’m an erotica reader, plain and simple. Just like I’d rather read a book than watch a movie, 99% of the time, I’d rather read my smut than view it. But for the sake of experimentation, I decided to branch out. I texted […]

When I was approached to write a post about hookups, I was really excited to jump at the chance. I thought back to my time online dating and realized how much it taught me about what to look for — and what to avoid — in partners of all kinds. And then I remembered that […]

Sex is often likened to riding a bicycle, in that you supposedly never forget how to do it. As someone who rode a bicycle right into a brick wall just a year or two ago, I call shenanigans. Luckily, re-learning how to sext is easier than riding a bicycle, and it’s probably just as good for […]

With non-monogamy of all kinds becoming less taboo, from swinging to polyamory to open relationships, there’s a lot to learn out there from some really amazing sources. Even if you’re not interested in going down that road right now, there’s a lot that monogamous folks can learn from teachings around open relationships. Communication Just about […]

Settle in, kids, and I shall tell you the tale of My Worst First Date. Picture this: Me, young and fresh, a mere 20 years old and — this part is kind of important for what comes later — not a sex blogger yet. Just a gal looking for a good time. Full of hopes […]

Here at Ododi you’ll find a massive range of sex toys for sale online at great prices. While we try to make shopping as easy and straighforward as possible so that our customers have a great shopping experience, it can still be a daunting task as to what toy you should buy. Many of our […]

Penis rings can be excellent. While they used to be reserved for those who had problems maintaining an erection, in modern times they’re more commonly used by men to enhance their erection and pleasure during sex and masturbation. Clearly, there are many different styles and materials you could choose from, but I thought it might […]