“I’m in my early 30’s and been married for 5 years. We have two great kids together. I know I got married too early and I wish things were different. I do love my wife, but even though I thought things would be different for us I now wish I’d listened to what people were […]

QUESTION: I would like to know your take on vaginal showers. I don’t have an STD, but I met a male gynecologist who recommends vaginal cleansing on a daily basis. His arguments go around the idea that the way we usually brush our teeth every day, we should do vaginal showers. I’m asking this because, […]

QUESTION: Last night, my girlfriend and I had sex and were joined in bed by three of our male friends. They all used condoms for protection during intercourse but they removed their condoms and came on her at the end — on her upper body – breast, neck, face and lips. Shortly after they had […]

QUESTION: I had unprotected sex about a month ago. Then this week, I noticed what looked like a pimple on the shaft of my penis. It popped on its own and had pimple ooze come out of it, like a regular pimple, and now it is almost gone. This made me scared that maybe it […]

QUESTION: Every time I have sex, even if I use lubricant or make sure there is enough foreplay I get a tear at the bottom entrance of my vagina (the fourchette I believe it’s called). It is not really painful. Just a slight sting. But I have to wait until it heals every time and […]

QUESTION: My wife and I used to have oral sex once in a while and both enjoyed it. Now she says when I give her oral pleasure she says she gets a yeast infection. For this reason she won’t let me do it anymore. I don’t think she gets an infection if she performs fellatio […]

QUESTION: I have a 17 year old son who is struggling with gender identity issues and I need information, I need to know how to best support him. I am looking for any resources online or local, although we live in Texas so the options are slim. Please let me know where is the best […]

QUESTION: I am being treated for genital warts by my doctor. Plenty of websites say “try to avoid getting HPV”, but what do you do when you have it? What do I do now to have a romantic life? I plan to tell potential partners about my warts, and I worry that any potential relationship […]

QUESTION: This have been happening for a long time now, and it’s annoying me. I wake up with weird dirt under my nails. I found out I was sleep masturbating, when once, I had my period, I woke up with blood under my nails. but the weird part is that it’s not accompanied with sexual […]

QUESTION: I made a huge ethical mistake and didn’t tell my partner that I have genital herpes. Now he has herpes. What should I do? I’ve always told my previous partners without any problem. Thanks for your question. Many women and men find it challenging or embarrassing to talk about sexually transmissible infections – also […]