QUESTION: Is Anal Sex Safe? In theory, yes. Anal sex can absolutely be a safe way to experience sex, just as vaginal intercourse can be a safe way to experience sex. With any type of sex, however, there are ways to make it more or less safe. Condoms Research shows that heterosexual women and men […]

QUESTION: For a day or two after having vaginal intercourse, it burns when I pee. The first time it happened I went to the doctor thinking it was an UTI, but my urine tested negative. The doctor said it was probably just trauma caused by rough sex. It healed quickly. But now it is happening […]

QUESTION: My partner and I want to try anal sex but we don’t have condoms or lube. Is there anything like petroleum jelly we can use without buying anything? Condoms And Lubricant Are Important Anal sex is something you should definitely use condoms and lubricant for. This is because the anus does not lubricant on […]

“I’m in my early 30’s and been married for 5 years. We have two great kids together. I know I got married too early and I wish things were different. I do love my wife, but even though I thought things would be different for us I now wish I’d listened to what people were […]

QUESTION: I would like to know your take on vaginal showers. I don’t have an STD, but I met a male gynecologist who recommends vaginal cleansing on a daily basis. His arguments go around the idea that the way we usually brush our teeth every day, we should do vaginal showers. I’m asking this because, […]

QUESTION: Last night, my girlfriend and I had sex and were joined in bed by three of our male friends. They all used condoms for protection during intercourse but they removed their condoms and came on her at the end — on her upper body – breast, neck, face and lips. Shortly after they had […]

QUESTION: I had unprotected sex about a month ago. Then this week, I noticed what looked like a pimple on the shaft of my penis. It popped on its own and had pimple ooze come out of it, like a regular pimple, and now it is almost gone. This made me scared that maybe it […]

QUESTION: Every time I have sex, even if I use lubricant or make sure there is enough foreplay I get a tear at the bottom entrance of my vagina (the fourchette I believe it’s called). It is not really painful. Just a slight sting. But I have to wait until it heals every time and […]

QUESTION: My wife and I used to have oral sex once in a while and both enjoyed it. Now she says when I give her oral pleasure she says she gets a yeast infection. For this reason she won’t let me do it anymore. I don’t think she gets an infection if she performs fellatio […]

QUESTION: I have a 17 year old son who is struggling with gender identity issues and I need information, I need to know how to best support him. I am looking for any resources online or local, although we live in Texas so the options are slim. Please let me know where is the best […]