Guide to Restraints

Restraints can come in many forms but how do you know what is best for you to use? It can be over whelming, what with all the decision to make.

Do you want wrist or ankle cuffs? Leather, steel or rubber? What’s best for me?

For me, when I started experimenting, I went with those fluffy fake police cuffs, which were kinky and fun but they just didn’t do a good job if keeping me ‘restrained’. That’s when I ventured out and purchased my first set of faux leather cuffs and it grew from there. tied

OK, so I am not ‘pro’ when it comes to restraints but I think I do have a good eye for what is rather decent and what is not. Over the last 4 years, I have had the opportunities to try all different types of restraints out. I am not fond of full body restraints, as that is not for me but I do know a fair few bloggers who are into that type of restraint.

Ropes are another good material to use, as a restraint. You can keep them loose, tight or however you wish them to be and if you want to delve further, you could try Shibari Rope work, which is an art within it’s self.

I do like visiting RopeTopia, they have some wonderful photos of their rope work.

But why do people like restraints? If could simply boil down to the arousal of being helpless can bring to the submissive or the Dominant. Losing that control you automatically have as a person and trusting your partner to bring you both pleasure through a mutual respect, is also a massive turn on, in it’s self!

But restraining can be an art, as well as sexual.

Here are my recommendations of different types of restraints, that are available:

Leather Restraints

Leather & Chain Ankle restraints
Shots Ouch Red Leather Hand Cuffs
Black Leather Hand Cuffs
Crave Black Leather Hand Cuffs
Uberkinky Five Piece Locking Leather Restraint Kit
Strict Leather Deluxe Locking Wrist Cuffs
House of Eros Dark Red Wrist Cuffs
House of Eros Dark Red Ankle Cuffs

Material Restraints

Quickie Cuffs
LELO Etherea Silk Cuffs
Bound to Tease Ankle Restraints
Bound to Tease Wrist Restraints
Sex and Mischief Black Beginner’s Hand Cuffs
Fifty Shades of Grey Soft Limits Deluxe Wrist Tie
Sports Cuffs


Natural Hemp Rope by Uberkinky
Bound to Please Hemp Bondage Rope
Cotton Bondage Rope
Frisky Orchid Silicone Rope
Bound to Tease Bondage Rope in Black
Bound to Tease Bondage Rope in Red
Doc Johnson Japanese Bondage Rope
Sex and Mischief ‘Do Not Disturb’ Kit
Fetish Fantasy Min Silk Rope

Body, Tape & Bed Restraints

50 Shades Of Grey Hard Limits Restraint Kit
Sex and Mischief Bed Bondage Restraint Kit
Door Jam Cuffs
Bondage Tape
200 cm Chain with Hooks
Sportsheets Neck & Wrist Restraints
Leather Arm Binder
Fetish Fantasy Rope Cuff & Tether Kit
Elastabind Corset Restraint
Rouge Adjustable Wrist to Neck Restraint
Ouch! Neck and Wrist Hog Tie

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