Debunking The Strap-Ons Myth

If you’re in a heterosexual relationship, there is a strong chance that you have never considered the usage of strap-ons in your bedroom. Many people assume that strap-on dildos are a novelty exclusive for lesbian play, but the fact is, strap-ons are just as fun in the bedroom for heterosexual couples. They are a unique and different way to really spice up life in the bedroom, while bringing pleasure for both him and her.

Strap-On Q&A – Some Helpful Advice

If you decide that adding a strap-on dildo to your sextoy collection is something you’d like, then take the time to pick out a high-quality dong and a harness that will fit well. The specific design of dongs for strap-on harnesses involves having a very broad, flared base so that it can be fastened to the harness. This also means that this toy can be used without the harness, and oftentimes, these can double as suction-hold dongs. So, when you’re selecting, be sure to select something you’ll actually want to use for solo or partner play.

The Sensual Side to Strap-On Sex

Once you have the toy selected for your use, then it becomes time to start exploring and experimenting. For many, this might start with the woman. The benefit to having a strap-on dildo is that one the man has had an orgasm, he can continue and give the woman all the pleasure he wants with the harness. There are several ways these can be done. One is by a thigh harness, which means that the man’s erection is not needed and he won’t be over stimulated, while still providing a dong for the woman to be pleasured with. Otherwise, there are hollow strap-ons that can be placed over his manhood and still allow for penetration, even after orgasm, without causing any discomfort. This is perfect if you have a male partner who has a medical condition, or simply would love to see how his woman can come undone in the bedroom when pushed beyond what his body naturally can do.

Beginners Guide: Purchasing Your First Strap-On Harness

For pleasuring the male partner, this is a great way to switch up the dynamic in the bedroom. Men’s prostates are incredibly erogenous when they’ve been stimulated or massaged, and strap-ons can provide this stimulation. Operating much like the G-spot in a woman, it heightens the entire experience. For men, it’s always best to start with a narrow dildo, something that will be comfortable and easier to get used to. In fact, dildos are designed specifically for prostate stimulation, and will have a rounded edge with a bit of a curve so that it can ideally stimulate. Unlike the vagina, there are no natural lubricants with the anus, so you’ll want to make sure you have a good-quality lube, and a great deal of it, so that you have the safest experience possible.

Strap-ons aren’t just for one particular type of sexual play, so why exclude it from the bedroom? If you’re looking for a new spiciness, or really want to branch out to add some “kink” to your sex life, why not?