How to use a vibrator with a reluctant partner

Vibrators come in many shapes and sizes. They can be pleasurable for both you and your partner.

Many men now realize that women enjoy sex just as much as their male partner and are open to sexual exploration. If your partner is reluctant start off with other less intimidating types of sexual play.

Edible lotions, oils and paints are great for beginning your journey into sexual exploration. They help you to learn each others erogenous zones. A full body massage is sensual and very telling as your partner reacts to your manipulations.

Take their moans and body language in as you move your hands over their body to determine the spots they love to be touched the most. Ask questions if you are unsure of the response you get, it is better to know how they feel about a specific touch than to guess.

Then start out slow with a variety of sex toys. Vibrating cock rings are a great toy to start with. You can pick up the disposable variety at just about any drug store. Using a vibrating ring keeps it about both of your sexual experiences and helps put your partner feel at ease about their performance. Once he is ready to move up to a vibrator suggest shopping together for it.

Many Types of Vibrators Available

There are many types of vibrators and he may feel more at ease once he is able to see them first hand. Many men prefer non phallic models of vibrators, which are easy to find.

Once you have him on board with the addition of sex toys for both of your sexual pleasure try some or all of these tips to get the most of your new toys.

Introduce a new toy by giving a full body sensual massage. Remember what you learned about each others body during the other full body massages and explore with different toys and speeds to determine what is most pleasurable.

While performing oral sex on him, use the vibrator on your cheek to a create a wonderful vibrating experience for him.

While he is performing oral sex on you have him use the vibrator on your G spot for a wonderfully intense orgasm on your part.

The perineum is extremely sensitive area between the base of the testicles and the anus, using a vibrator, on a low-speed, will heighten his orgasm.

Explore a variety of vibrators and sex toys to find what works to heighten both of your sexual experiences. Introducing sex toys such as vibrators into your relationship opens up communication and exploration giving both participants a fuller, more satisfying sexual experience.