With the appropriate person, sex can be both joyful and fulfilling. Sex may be liberating and exhilarating when two individuals are physically connected. While many people have trouble achieving orgasm, when they do, it can be a disappointment to get there. Orgasm, according to some, isn’t always feasible for them. Having an orgasm does not […]
Realistic dildos – the most basic, and occasionally essential of the sex toys available. There are a lot of options on the market, but when people think “sex toy” the common vision that comes to mind is a veiny dong. The sex toy industry has made leaps and bounds in regards to technology the past […]
I often get asked, usually in the comments of my Instagram posts, or through DMs and emails, “How did you become so confident?” This brazen babe didn’t always carry a sure-of-herself charm; I was a very insecure person for a good chunk of my life. Becoming confident was a conscious decision I made in order […]
People sometimes don’t ‘get’ fantasies, especially fantasies that involve power plays, infidelity, or certain age changes (or discrepancies). But it’s important to remember that fantasies, and the enjoyment of them, are purely fabrications. Loads of people, for example, enjoyed the newest Mad Max or John Wick (pick a movie) but very few of us are […]
I have a confession to make: I don’t really watch ~adult entertainment~. I’m an erotica reader, plain and simple. Just like I’d rather read a book than watch a movie, 99% of the time, I’d rather read my smut than view it. But for the sake of experimentation, I decided to branch out. I texted […]
Late last week, I realized that my review queue had grown wildly long between the end of last summer and this spring. Somehow, I’d amassed something like ten new sex toys, either explicitly for review purposes, as purchases, or in swag bags. At the same time, I’d been moving away from writing quite as many […]
When I was approached to write a post about hookups, I was really excited to jump at the chance. I thought back to my time online dating and realized how much it taught me about what to look for — and what to avoid — in partners of all kinds. And then I remembered that […]
It’s taken me quite a while to gather my thoughts on this whole “suction”-based toy trend. In reality, I’m fairly certain that these clitoral vibrators work by using puffs of air and a vibrating motor, but since I understand absolutely nothing about engineering, I couldn’t tell you for sure. But I can give you my […]
Sex is often likened to riding a bicycle, in that you supposedly never forget how to do it. As someone who rode a bicycle right into a brick wall just a year or two ago, I call shenanigans. Luckily, re-learning how to sext is easier than riding a bicycle, and it’s probably just as good for […]
With non-monogamy of all kinds becoming less taboo, from swinging to polyamory to open relationships, there’s a lot to learn out there from some really amazing sources. Even if you’re not interested in going down that road right now, there’s a lot that monogamous folks can learn from teachings around open relationships. Communication Just about […]
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